Kari

With today being the day after Mother's Day I just want to write a few lines about my amazing wife and Dax's wonderful mother.

First of all she truly is amazing.  She is everything to our family and does nearly everything for us.  While I have been finishing school she's been the breadwinner, the mom, the wife, the housekeeper, the cook, and she even tries to get me to let her do some of my homework.  She truly is exceptional and does her best to make sure we are living a good, comfortable life right now.  I thank her for that and am so grateful for all she does, especially to pick up where I lack.  One of the amazing things is how she does it all on a very small amount of sleep because she works nights.  She is such a great mother to Dax and makes sure he is growing up right.

In my last post I hinted that I would write about something else that happened on our trip to Ohio.  This adventure once again speaks to how strong and wonderful Kari is.  We were in Ohio from Friday to Wednesday.  On Sunday night Dax was having a really bad ear infection so we got a hold of our Dr. in St. George and he called in an antibiotic to a 24-hour pharmacy in Canton.  While I was picking it up I grabbed a pregnancy test because we had been trying to get pregnant and Kari was a few weeks late but wasn't getting a positive test.  That night she took the test and it came back positive.  We were really excited and looking forward to the day when we would get to welcome another one of Heavenly Father's children into our family.  The next morning however, Kari started cramping really bad and bleeding.  She hurt most of the day so we pretty much just did and saw stuff from the car so she could sit.  That night was when we met with a bunch of people Kari grew close to around Cleveland and she did her best to put on a happy face but she was hurting and so she wasn't quite her normal self.  The next day we started thinking maybe it was a miscarriage and contacted our Dr. again.  He told us that's likely what it was and that we should do two rounds of lab tests on Thursday and Saturday when we got back.  The problem was that on Tuesday she was in so much pain she could barely walk.  She had started looking up the symptoms she was having and they were consistent with either a miscarriage or an ectopic pregnancy.  That night we were staying at the Titera's and Bro. Titera and myself gave Kari a blessing that she would be able to travel the next day (carrying luggage and Dax through three airports) without any problems.  She was a trooper to be sure.  She did great the entire time and is incredibly strong.  She did hurt most of the day, but the really bad pain didn't come until about the time we got in our car to drive from Las Vegas to St. George.  The Lord truly answers prayers and blessed her on that day.  The next day she went in and got her first round of tests done and felt OK on Thursday and Friday.  Friday night was a different story though.  She was in pain most of the night and didn't sleep.  When we were getting ready to go take her second set of labs I got in the shower and while I was in there she came in to the bathroom and said, "Robert, I'm going to pass out."  Startled I quickly jumped out to make sure she didn't fall and hit her head or anything, but she did pass out and didn't know what was going on or remember telling me she was going to pass out.  When that happened I insisted that we go to the emergency room and her sister and brother-in-law Kellie and Matt met us at the hospital to take Dax.  We owe a big thank you to them for all they did and do to help us.  We were there for two hours before they finally came in and told us that the ultrasounds confirmed an ectopic pregnancy.  For those of you who don't know, it is a tubal pregnancy and as the fetus grows inside the fallopian tube there isn't room causing the tube to rupture if you don't catch it in time.  Well we didn't catch it in time and they said that when she passed out was likely when it ruptured.  Our Dr. also mentioned that the tube likely should have burst days before.  The fact that it didn't we once again credit Heavenly Father and the power of priesthood blessings for that.  Once they confirmed that it had burst they had to do emergency surgery.  When the surgeon came out and told me how it went he said the surgery went good but that she had lost 2 liters of blood, nearly half, and it was all in her stomach.  He said it took longer to suck the blood out then it did to perform the surgery.  Because she is young they didn't put any blood in her and just wanted to let her body regenerate it, that caused her to be really tired and lack energy the next few weeks while her body was trying to get back to normal.  The surgery itself went well and she is doing better now.  The physical toll was enough to have to bare, but she also had the emotional toll to deal with, which might have been worse.  She is now constantly concerned about the chance that she won't be able to have kids again because they had to remove one of her fallopian tubes.  But through it all she has been absolutely amazing and has shown strength and courage.  Her family did so much to help out during these last couple of months and for that we are forever grateful and we are once again so grateful to our Father in Heaven and his son Jesus Christ for Kari's health and safety during it and for truly everything.  We are a blessed family.  Happy Mother's Day Kari and to my mom and mother-in-law.

Spring Break!!!! Ohio here we come!!!

The title of this post is correct. We left St. George when it was 70-75 degrees and sunny and made our way to Cleveland where it was 35 degrees and snowing the day we landed.  We never claimed to be the smartest people, but we still had a good time during our trip.

Kari served her mission in the Ohio Cleveland Mission and spent some time at the Kirtland Historic Sites.  She has been wanting to get back there to show me off for quite a while so we decided to go over spring break this semester.  We actually went back because a couple of people she taught that joined the church are getting up there in age, they're both 90, and she wanted to see them while we knew we had the chance to do so.  The second reason was because she wanted to show off Daxton, then there were a few more reasons before I showed up on the list but I was more than happy to go along for the ride.

Daxton was very excited to see the airplanes and to "fly in the sky" but he fell asleep right before take off and slept for the first hour.  Mid-flight though he woke up suddenly and said "fly airplane in the sky."  It was really cute and fun to see how he acted on the plane.  He was really good for all of the flights we had to and from Ohio.  We flew out to Ohio on Friday and stayed at the Titera's house.  They are a family that Kari grew close to during her time out there and we were very fortunate to be able to stay there and are very grateful for their hospitality.  Saturday we got the chance to see George, one of the converts Kari taught.  He is an incredibly neat guy and a great addition to the church.  Then we made our way over to Kirtland and stayed the night near there.  We deemed Sunday as our spiritual day and went to the Kirtland Ward and Kari got to see some members she worked with while she was in that area.  Then Karin Stewart, who is from Enterprise, took us on tour of the visitors center and the open sites.  It was a great tour and fun for Kari to be back in that area to see everything.  Sister Stewart and her companion would often ask Kari to share what she remembered about certain sites and to share her testimony of it.  That aspect of the trip was really neat for me and I only wish Dax would have been older and better behaved so that he too could have had a more powerful experience of seeing his mom beam at the memories she made and the testimony she gained of different principles while at Kirtland.  That area truly is a remarkable place and the spirit is felt very strong there.

After leaving the visitors center we crossed the street and went to see the Kirtland Temple.  The building itself is remarkable and the spirit is definitely there as well.  We got there about the same time as a Community of Christ tour bus and so the tour we had was quite different than most tours they give to LDS members.  Kari went on tour there many times as a missionary and said the one we went on this year was vastly different.  The tour guide talked a lot about their doctrine and stuff more than normal because of the tour group that we were with.

We weren't able to go to Johnson Farm because we got there like 10 minutes after it closed, which was disappointing because that was one of Kari's favorite places and when I went to Kirtland 8 years ago it's the place I best remembered also.  After that failed attempt we made our way to Canton so that we could go to the Football Hall of Fame.  That night though we went swimming at our hotel and Dax's ears were no bueno after that.  We think the flight bothered his ears some and then swimming definitely didn't help.  But we got a hold of our Dr's office in St. George and they called in an antibiotic prescription to a 24-hour pharmacy for us.

The next day we went to the HOF and had fun seeing all of the artifacts there and getting pics of Dax playing football.  Then we made our way through Amish country and Dax loved that too.  He loved saying "horse and buggy" and seeing them.  That night the Titera's planned a get together for a bunch of ward members that Kari knew so it was fun to meet the people Kari always talks about and for her to interact and reminisce with them.  The next day we took Dax to a nature center so he could see some animals and fish.  He loved seeing all of them and we also went to Lake Erie and took a picture of the frozen lake.  We also saw James, the other convert that is 90 years old.  It was good for him and Kari to see each other.  We also did a couple of things to help him out.

We came home from Ohio on Wednesday.  We went and saw George one more time that morning and met his daughter, who Kari has always wanted to meet.  Then we went to lunch with Sister Titera and her daughter Linda before jumping on a plane and flying home.  Dax loved Linda by the way.  She is incredibly musically inclined and talented and works as a music therapist.  Dax loved all of the instruments she had and playing with her.

Overall it was a fun trip and it was good for Kari to go back and show us off and see everybody, despite the unfortunate adventure that we had about midway through that I will write about another day.

February Re-cap

On February 6th Robert turned 26! The old man! He shared his birthday with the super bowl and we had a fun party. He decided that he wanted to go up to Leamington since we don't get up there very much in our crazy life. He took the weekend off of listening to every Dixie State sporting event and we actually got to go on a date! Grandma and Grandpa Lovell took Dax on Saturday and we went to Provo for the day and had a fun time. Then on Sunday we had a super bowl/birthday party with all sorts of yummy and completely bad for you food and some healthy gambling! :)

What a wonderful guy I married! I am so lucky that I belong to him and tricked him into being stuck with me for eternity before he figured it out and could get out of it! I am so thankful for the wonderful husband and dad he is and for the fun and happiness he brings to our lives. You are one of my best blessings babe! I hope you know how much I love you and how glad I am that we are a family! You are the best!

That was basically the highlight of February though...the rest of the month was just work, school, basketball, baseball, more basketball and sports center of course! :) It is a good thing I kind of enjoy it I guess. Me and Dax actually started going to most of the Dixie State basketball games and it has been pretty fun. I realized fast that I miss the gym and the smell of basketballs and sweaty people or whatever it is that gyms smell like! Dax has had fun though and has started to take an interest in basketball and has been trying to dribble on the kitchen floor. It is pretty cute.

Valentines Day was pretty lame really...in fact I am still waiting for my Valentines date! I had to work the night before, valentines night, and the night after and so the extent of our festivities were Robert waking me up before I had to go back to work on Valentines with this romantic heart shaped pizza from Papa Murphy's, a card from both of my boys and a rose from "Dax." Poor Robert got nothing but a lame card. We decided to count the rest of our valentines presents on the trip that we are taking soon that hopefully we will still be on the ball enough to post about after it is over. Yea for the holiday of love! Maybe next year... :)

The rest of February was our normal boring selves doing our regular boring and busy lives. We are all well and happy though and we can't complain. We are ever so blessed and wonder everyday why we are given so much. We hope that the rest of you had a great February. I can't believe that it is March already!

Daxton's Surgery

So I am still back tracking a little to get caught up, but since this is about the only record I am keeping I decided that I needed to get it in here somewhere!On January 5 Dax had to have surgery to get an inguinal hernia repaired and a hydrocele removed. Don't worry if you don't know what those things are, it is enough to just say that they are some sore things in especially tender areas! :)Being the good mom that I am, I had every intention of taking the camera and capturing just the right moments, but of course I left the camera at home and didn't even think of pictures most of the time we were at the hospital. We have a few pre-op ones in his cute little hospital gown but that is about all she wrote!

The good news is that everything went great. He had a hard time right after surgery while the medication was wearing off-he was actually mean and nasty a little bit, but what can you expect-some stranger cut into his goods! The thing that he hated the most was his IV. He tried his best to rip that thing out as he was coming back around and kept looking at me and Robert like what did you let them do to me! If you asked him about his ouchie after surgery he wouldn't point to his little groin, he would point to his hand where his IV poke sites were and tell you a sad story of that blasted IV! It was in a sad way very cute. Our other sad moment was that about 8-9 hours after the surgery, Dax woke up from dosing off and on all morning/afternoon screaming and just rolling around in severe pain. As I investigated a little further, we discovered that the the numbing had worked a little too well and the poor little guy couldn't pee. It was really sad. After a little bit of trying to get him to pee we were to the point of getting ready to go to instacare to have them straight cath the poor kid to get him out of his misery. I had his diaper off for one more hopeful look for yellow, when it all came loose! It covered him and me and the couch and ended with him heaving a sigh of relief! I am a little warped and I know it but it was funny and we sat there and laughed for a bit!

The evening after the surgery Robert had to go to work and do a ball game at the radio station and so Dax and I were hanging out at home. Robert took the car with the car seat because we were certain that we wouldn't be going anywhere. Dax fell asleep late in the afternoon and woke up at about 8:30 that night-never a good thing! I decided to put him in his pj''s and went searching for a onesie pair that didn't have a waist band and found in the hand-me-down bag a pair of slightly too large Toy Story jammies that we put on. You must know that we don't, well didn't, own any Toy Story movie or character and to my knowledge Dax had never seen it, but when he saw the pajamas he said "Buzz? Woody? Watch Buzz?" I thought it was a little weird but was certain that he could be distracted and would soon forget but no...He continued to ask to "watch Buzz" for a solid hour and would not give it up. So at 9:30 p.m. I started calling every neighbor to see if they had any Toy Story movies. I finally got a hold of my uncle who lives a few blocks away and we broke the law and drove over to his house without a car seat to get the movie. Apparently he learned about Toy Story at Christmas from cousin Easton-I had no idea he was paying so much attention. It scares me just a little! Toy Story is the new favorite at our house and we have watched it almost daily since and went out and purchased it the next day as his surgery prize for being so brave. Kind of funny our little Dax boy is, but we love him and are so glad that he is doing well!